Teens wants dating

"Honestly I am looking for woman to spend my life with. Just looking for a girlfriend, lover, confidant, travel companion and friend. That sounds simple right .not so much. While I enjoy being single, I would like be in a relationship it just has to be right or I can stay single." This reeks to me of emotional clingyness. It's way too heavy for a profile. "You can't tell anything from a profile." Uh yeah, you can. You can tell a lot. "Let's get a drink or some coffee and if we the world the same." Okay clearly you don't realize how that totally sets a woman up to disappoint. Of course you're not going to the world the same you're both looking at it through two different sets of eyes. They way you word your profile is crucial. That's all the woman has to go on your words and a couple of pictures. They have to be spot on. "I have a good job, good, enjoy a great life, laugh my ass off often, and find myself in a great spot. I am easy going. I don't live with my parents. I do not do, in fact I can't due to employment." Boring. And you're alluding to the idea that you might do if you weren't tested at work. This is a laundry list. "I live in downtown Naperville. Enjoy walking everywhere. I feel I am urban-suburban. Does that make sense? Like reading a book on a crowded day on the river walk. I always live within walking distance to a city. and or smoking is a deal breaker for me. Just being honest. Looking for a woman who is in the same phase of life as me - are almost out of the house, have ability to get out of the house, family and life is stable, enjoys a good work out, go on a bicycle ride, etc.." This is the most informative chunk of your profile and you've set it up to enable women to say "Nope" just like that. The entire thing makes it way too easy for a woman to say to herself, "I'm not what he's looking for." (You didn't need to start a new thead.)